About parent-teacher conferences
If both parents can attend a parent-teacher conference, that is very helpful. Many schools ask that you leave your children at home, including the student you will be discussing. (Ask an adult friend, relative, or babysitter to take care of your younger children when you attend a parent-teacher conference.) Be on time. Teachers usually have several conferences scheduled in a row and will appreciate your promptness. Be sure to express positive impressions of the teacher and share any nice comments your child has made about him or her. Everyone likes to hear good news. When you get home, let your child know how the conference went. Be sure to share something positive that the teacher said about your child.
Here are some questions you might ask the teacher during the conference:
• What are your goals and expectations for the year?
• How is my child doing?
• Does my child participate in class discussions? Is she actively involved in learning?
• How does my child get along with others? How are her friendships?
• How can I help my child improve his work?
• How much homework are students expected to do each night?
• What’s the best way to contact you if we have a question?
• How can students get extra help if they need it?
• How can we find out about extracurricular activities and sports programs?
• If the school “tracks” or groups students by level and ability, is my child at the right level? (If you feel that your child is over his head or is not challenged enough, talk with the teacher about your concerns.) Can my child get help to move to a more advanced class if he or she is ready for harder work?
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